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On Empowered Healing through Unapologetic Authenticity | Gauthami Jeji | TEDxISMEBangalore

The speaker asserts that genuine self-expression is the most powerful form of influence, arguing that by embracing one's authentic self, one earns success and validation. This claim is illustrated by her own experience overcoming toxic beauty standards associated with her Vitiligo and subsequently reshaping the fashion industry's perception of beauty. The core takeaway is to "take up space," "be loud," and be unapologetically oneself.

## Speakers & Context
- Unidentified speaker, discussing personal experiences related to appearance and self-worth.
- Discusses her experience navigating the fashion industry while living with Vitiligo.
- Directed a simple mindfulness exercise at the audience at the conclusion.

## Theses & Positions
- The most effective way to influence others is by simply being oneself.
- Greatness and success are natural consequences of choosing authenticity.
- The world needs more people who are "full of themselves and who know their worth."
- The speaker urges the audience to start a dialogue with oneself to heal from internalized shame.
- People who do not fit mainstream beauty standards should not feel less beautiful or less worthy.

## Concepts & Definitions
- **Vitiligo:** An autoimmune disorder where the immune system attacks and removes melanin pigmentation, resulting in white patches on the skin.
- **Cortisol:** The hormone produced by the body when stressed, which can be unhealthy, especially for autoimmune disorders.
- **Toxic Eurocentric beauty standards:** The narrow, unstated blueprints of beauty promoted by industry norms.
- **Authentic:** The state of being true to one's genuine self.

## Mechanisms & Processes
- **Autoimmune response:** The immune system mistakenly attacking the body's own melanin pigmentation.
- **Stress reduction:** The speaker intentionally focused on managing stress to heal her condition, noting that stress triggers cortisol production.
- **Self-Healing/Communication:** Healing was found through self-kindness, catering to physical needs without judgment, communicating needs, and expressing oneself.
- **Influence via Authenticity:** The model found that pursuing her passion simply because she enjoyed it led to fame, success, and change.

## Named Entities
- **Vitiligo:** The specific autoimmune disorder discussed.

## Numbers & Data
- Age 14: Buying the first dress that revealed her legs.
- Age 15: Stopping wearing jackets and sweaters in the peak of Summer.
- Audience size: Addressed "eight billion people on this planet."

## Examples & Cases
- **Childhood:** Spending childhood time in hospitals due to her condition, rather than playground fun.
- **Dietary Restrictions:** Being restricted from having citrus food for a period.
- **Pet Loss:** Having to give up her pet dog because the belief was that white patches were a result of an allergy.
- **Cosmetic Department Interaction:** A lady asking her, "Madam are you looking for a concealer," when she was merely buying a moisturizer.
- **Healing Patches:** Waking up to see white patches rapidly shrinking and healing on their own.
- **Pregnancy Incident:** Her mother and father seeing a "pouting hair flip" during an ultrasound appointment.
- **Positive Reception:** Receiving messages from global people, including parents, mothers, fathers, aunts, siblings, and children validating her work.

## Tools, Tech & Products
- **Makeup and Art:** Used by the speaker as a current source of self-expression.
- **Ultra ultrasound appointment:** Where her parents observed the "pouting hair flip."

## Trade-offs & Alternatives
- **Early Restrictions:** Giving up wearing jackets/sweaters, giving up citrus food, giving up her dog.
- **Focus Shift:** Moving the focus from physical skin/health to mental and emotional being.
- **Career Path:** Choosing the fashion industry for enjoyment rather than solely for change or breaking ceilings.

## Counterarguments & Caveats
- The initial perception that Vitiligo had no cure, which prompted her to take proactive steps toward healing through emotional management.
- The potential for the fashion industry to impose toxic standards that create shame.

## Conclusions & Recommendations
- To succeed, one does not need to perform extraordinary tasks or hustle; one simply has to be oneself.
- Take up space in the world, be loud, and be unapologetically loud.
- The call to action is to look in the mirror and start a dialogue: "Hi I've missed you. How are you?"

## Implications & Consequences
- The systemic problem of defining beauty with a single blueprint, making those outside the norm feel less worthy.
- The power of the individual narrative to inspire validation and confidence in others (e.g., children seeing her work).

## Verbatim Moments
- *"I have Whitley go and autoimmune disorder Vitiligo appears when my body and when my immune system sees the pigmentation right the melanin produced by my own body as an unhealthy thing and hence my immune system attacks it"*
- *"It was the do's and the don'ts it was having my normal childhood taken away from me"*
- *"the fashion industry owes me and you a huge apology"*
- *"the word beauty had one definition had one blueprint for 8 billion people on this planet"*
- *"I heal when I make a conscious effort to be surrounded by people who are kind loving and respectful"*
- *"the universe loves a person who's authentic"*
- *"go for it be yourself because I know I have one job in this world which is to be myself"*
- *"Hi guys I I influenced by simply being myself I hold great joy and success in my being"*