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Whats IN/OUT there? | Braj Mohan Das | TEDxSREC

[Music] that's still available and I was quite followers I was searching for those shoes everywhere and that they had to go to my hometown baby footage without any shoes and I also learned something as we are distracted with the externals with the things that are going on around us and we don't pay attention to something that is so close to us then we get stolen away of the very thing that is ours and today one of the biggest issues which because I work along with college youth and corporates if the biggest challenge that everybody big faces is not inability to act but the amount of distraction that's there constantly people are distracted you want to speak something and there is a distraction for five seconds and then you forget what you are supposed to do the ones to terrorists they were discussing a plot and the waiter came there and he asked the terrorists so what are you discussing and he said we are thinking about how to kill 40,000 people and a donkey and the waiter immediately ask sir why a donkey and the guy the terrorists said see I told you nobody is going to care about the 14,000 and this is our dispatch networks you get distracted by the growth that is sitting offset the classroom window and the whole thing that is the teacher is teaching is off the window and what this is because this is being distracted by a girl or a Pollock in your college or in the campus and you let go of your studies for pursuing something that has to be done later and there is no problem with distraction with feeding in so much stimulus that they that comes through all of the parameters if we are able to digest it if we are able to process it but unfortunately we have limited processing power just like if you want to eat all the food that's in a marriage party you are there for a demonstration the next day and today the biggest distraction is through internet the Mobile's the mobile cell filter the discounted students away from their studies from ten years and it's a rule in many colleges that you can bring in profiles in your classroom on the exam Falls it said we need every successful student that is a deactivated Facebook at all reactivate your facebook account you can't get over the distraction which many times become smaller than your main necessities that are there and how do we deal with so much data that is coming through so much information is in it's coming in and that is a technology recent research called as information dynein whenever you want to do some research you just go on google and there is already so much done and reading about all of it you will depress Lobo low ethan again it megandave lakota services kappa and at these times it is very important for us to actually come inside out that we filter out what stimulus to be actually taking seriously to be able to actually deal with disruption and unless we practice being not distracted we will never be able to hear the real voice that is us many times we just are hearing the noise of other people the peer pressure or the social trends and we just try to follow that and there are many students that come to me after the engineering what an excerpt I don't know why I did my engineering and nowadays there is a norm that you should not think about your career till you complete your eight beam and this is because we are not taught to learn our inner voice who is it that you are because so much of the outside information is being taken it and there is no problem as I said if you are able to process that information and of course the image is not clear this is a set of belief of mine after I give up a very spiritual as higher-dimensional science we are trying to retain vedic physics and the quantum physics and this is me you hardly can see me but i used to sweat a lot now you don't miss reading a lot but i used to sweat a lot because i'm a lot of heat in my body and then after I did after and completed my engineering at IIT Bombay I moved on to do my masters in Chicago and I did my masters in quantum physics then and Chicago as you know is a very cold place often sub-zero temperatures and in the most of the ether was dated my body was stolen to shoes were stolen and then when I came back of course it's a big story why I came back from Chicago back to Pompeii when he came back again I am NOT able to see can you can you Bangkok maybe the connector you can just take it to check that out and when I came back to whopping the summers were the happiest because it was very warm but the winters I was terribly cold Oh bumpy is not the cold place unlike Saudi India or not India it's a very moderate temperature but even otherwise I just always feel cold and my friends were not feeling so cold and then one of my doctor side with the doctors told me to drink water from a chain or a pot and I've been trying that for last sometime and this is the first winter in which I was not feeling so cold as I usually feel whereas my other very cold and this led me to my second lesson that what we perceive in our life is very much dependent on the perceiver who is observing this is basically what quantum physics also says the information the world out there is depending on the observer that is seeing the world so temperature is objective but feeling hot or cold in that temperature is subject marks if our objective but feeling happy or morose and worthless pawns are subjective one who gets all the time 50% when he gets 80% is of the clock and one who gets usual 25% if we get Sadie it becomes very much morose and situation is same but how do you perceive their situation and that very much depends on your ability to handle that situation and in this case because my body's ability to handle eat and grow now now I can handle more cold than usual so what generally makes makes or breaks people is the ability to handle pressure when there is a pressure pressure of too much food in the stomach or too much work on the table or too much posts to reply when there is pressure how do you handle that pressure and there is two sides to it don't take what more than you can handle then in that situation what happens is you don't grow if you don't take both pressure you don't grow and the is to increase your to handle all that you are taking and if you can increase our tiniest of capacity physically and mentally ten years we'll be able to handle more and more pressures and themself we can actually start to grow more in our life so the second principle that you should all try to take away from this talk is know that pressure is subjective many times students they make some small issue into big thing and they get depressed or they can get suicidal thoughts because the subjective way which they are trying to magnify the size of the problem the problem is not decided by us but the size of the problem is decided by the inner perception and when these things happen then how do you take that pressure during my ID coaching times i DJ everybody tries to lose I add a professor who's to come from entrance every weekend I try to teach and this professor in our College is to constantly kind of brought me or bully me saying that you're not able to see what you are supposed to see you are drunk now I've never drunk in my life but you should constantly change tell it not in front of the whole class you are done you are not able to see now I would think that sensitively that why is this guy speaking like this but I took it in a very supportive way that maybe is right I'm not able to see that way and I should try to go deeper and when I took those statements those pressures that were there from the outside from my professor then I am grateful to that professor who actually opened my mind to be able to think in a way that usually I have not thought and that's when that's when I started to be supportive that take challenges in a sporting spirit don't take them in a sensitive way that people are often against me they're trying to plot me but take things as a challenge if somebody says this guy will never be able to do it don't take it in a sensitive way get an escort a way and then that's when your inner self starts to come home if you never like to face challenges then you will never grow your inside will never count and as my book as my professor tried to do with me that lesson I kept keeping with me all through and when I to do my ID exams I in DJ the most rated exams everybody faces and there was another exam that was called as I said I am sure all of you gave up set and there are two strategies variety je we are to focus more on the concepts and for himself it is more about memory you have to memorize so many hundred types of formulas and I am NOT a good memorizing that's why I do PG&E that's right I have taken physics so I went with only one formula than you to give them said exam that is F equal to Ma you know that is a funny version of M people to have been told my child the child was said what is Newton's three laws and he said first law is I will not get up from the bed till I want to I want to be the state of leadership the second unless there is external force F equal to 8 min which is mom there has to be external force the third is depending on the force if it is a overall force then I am you all replied yes mother are getting up and if it is a physical force mother comes then I actually get up of course a funny way of saying Newton's constant and so the only thing I meant to and give em said exact words few of this formulation and inside there all these different situations because my basics my I was inside out approach I did I write and acted all the formulas which our situation and I entered I completed my exam 30 minutes before the time and then I was wondering what had what would I do with 30 minutes I devised and I get completed and then I got ran for 130 which I wasted because I read why and then now when people see me in this attack they say first you wasted episode track now you Winston hi dear I said I just choose Abed best Kenyan at every stage that I'm coming home come across souvenirs for tails we do take on challenges your inside out comes out and then you are able to handle more and more but there will always be situations where you would get deeper no matter how much you try there is this tree of life and bearing all across it two kilometers there is no wonderful it's all desert but some of this tree has learned not to go deeper fighting against the soil the sand and it does it has roots way very different it is able to get water from them and this is how you want to subset in your life when you constantly challenge faced challenges and challenge yourself nobody else has to come and try to prod you of course you forget people like that like my Heidi professor it's fine and constantly challenge yourself that's when your Reed's roots go deep and when your roots go deep that's variable you can play a long game in life there's another set of trees in a redwood forest California Q sub quadrants will record Wilfred for us these trees are huge mammoth in size in fact the trees are so big as you can see at least eight to ten people have needed Anton to cover the perimeter of the tree and these trees what the schedule is very interesting is that their roots have not gone deep we will expected if trees so big the roots should also be very big but instead of going deeper they are more wider the roots have spread across and trying to network connect with other tree's roots and they made a strong network bonding with all the other trees that are there in the vicinity so bill fails in situations with abilities or areas in which we are not experts in which with no matter how much we drive we don't become 30 and that in that situations we should take support we should live supportively take support use the outside world to develop your inner self don't think that everybody is a self-made man it's a myth that man can make himself we are first of all male power apparent by our teachers and when a society order of this in fact whatever has been given is the gift of God and the others and we have to utilize those gifts to pass on a better word to the next generation not borrow from them but actually give them and their many support systems one of the support stronger support systems which I on I connect to regularly is the support system of God but there are also the society the societal support system family support system each and every person in the college is someone other in the society is supporting us in some way or rhythm when John F Kennedy had visited NASA Space Center just before the moon landing he has the janitor what do you what do you do here generated currents and I just leave them off but he said I am helping man we put on the moon and because he was having that I am assisting for a bigger cause he was happy and everyone around us spring/summer at the rolling element so when we try to help others in areas where they are not good and then we also seek support seek help then the outside world actually helps us to make a strong ability therefore I say even it comes from good diet and a good community then we are staying in a happy company that actually loves and takes care of us that actually boosts our ability and nowadays because of the nuclear families that we are living there is no concept of the community and that's why I even help lies the immunity is going down so these are mine this is the coat that I like very much by every David Thoreau what lies before hers and what lies behind us are small matters compared to what lies within us that ability to grow that ability to contribute and when we bring what is within us out into the world when it doesn't happen you have a special gift each and every one of you and when you bring when you try to be less respective shut out all the noise that is there and try to hear your own voice try to challenge it try to bring it off amplified and take outside support that's when you will be very different so to conclude both in and out feel each other first of all shut down all the try to be less destructive all the noise that that is there try to be less destructive in your life practice me not is not destructive the second is no other pressure is subjective try to identify the pressure that you can take and accordingly increase your ability to handle pressure by increasing that inner self inner strength the third is get spotted play sports physically also and with your life take it as a challenge don't get emotional and sensitive about things that is inside of that so your roots go deep and also like the movie would for us live supportive the help others around you don't try to be a self-made man on a selfish pursuits and I'm sure if you follow these four principles which I try to teach all the you that I come across here also actually block some from inside of thank you [Applause]