Last three seconds of your life | Mashahed Hassan Simanta | TEDxKhulnaUniversity
what would you do if I start putting off my dresses let's start white from the shoe because girls they first look at your faith the holy they are judging you so let's start from the shoe second one from the court I know that currently I'm looking like about 25 years old if I just put off my coat I would look like 15 and if I I have another one round color t-shirt inside this and if I just put it this blue sure this helped look like 10 I don't want to make you offer them the moment our girl is being harassed it takes about three to four months to get the judgment from the whole our system it delays the moment they're providing us justice but we're really efficient judging other people we don't delay judging other people actually I'll discuss about five big glitters of our life the way we are being judged every day first one that's aging sorry you have to be young to take this leadership or so I say you are too old to start a new business how come you were 40 but you are not getting married people always judge you based on your age and sometimes they feel that age is equal to the experience unfortunately age is not equal to the experience rather experience comes from the struggle that makes you stronger the problem that makes you like purpose closer the situation that makes you both skillful so don't think about your age the second one is you so you are not beautiful enough to be the bernam ass of this company or so you don't have the sweet voice to be a telephone receptionist Wow how come you what RIT is shorter than you this is how we judge other people based on their beauty third one community the moment you are scoring cgpa 4.0 out of 4.0 you're creating a community of the top type students and you feel that the people who are the back bencher they're truly the burden of the society and the Pantene Church they feel that this nerd guys they don't you're anything other than the textbooks so this is how we judge each other based on the community the second one is that's not a terrific result but that's from the Economic Community the moment you belong to a middle income family you have the pride you know the struggle of your life you feel that you're the only one who is learning how to struggle on the other hand those who belong to the top turn of the economy they see that oh you are not smart enough to hang out in the pipes the rest well this is how we judge based on the economic class fourth one this is one of my most favorite one dream the moment I'm not sure no matter your dream is small or big you'd be just based on your dream and the fifth one e stands for English but that's not the answer somehow we feel that English is the sign of intelligence that's wrong wow you have a very good English pronunciation you have a very good English presentation skill that doesn't mean you are skillful this one night to remember logic is more important than language [Applause] [Music] yourself but in order to build up the logic you need to have some situations and strategies so the fifth one is the most favorite one that's not English that's the movie QR boy and now to play the booming your girl you are not allowed to be strong after the breakup if we wonder crying that means you are not committed in the relationship breakup if you are crying you are so immature you deserve actually better to charge that motion of the other people this is how your age your beauty the community you belong your dream and your emotions every time you are being judged one problem and we all try to find out one simple strategy to avoid this judgment because sometimes this makes our life complicated two simple strategy to avoid when you are being judged when sound is just in you ask yourself to collision one if this person important to is this Ocean important the moment you are asking is this person important you'd find most of the time you are being judged by the person who is not a mandatory element of your life this is how in one way you can simply avoid a judgement second one that's far more important that is this question important I don't actually have fair skin is this important so please the moment you are being judged is this person important easy is this ocean important simple way you can easily avoid the judgment at the end of the day the moment we're actually running you tracker for life it is important in this stage we have talked so many motivational and positive things to be positive I create that positive thinking that should come from the practicality the moment you accept the problems of your life you'll be positive the moment you are avoiding a problem you are not starting to solution to make the solution of your problem so there are six of the truths of your life we all be told first one the world isn't real please remember that the world would judge you second one your problem is not others priority I don't care what type of problem you're facing sometimes you don't have enough time to listen to your problem the paramon is your development is not my concern but if you are not stilled I would hire you this is how the world actually runs the fourth one we don't care about the effort we only care about the result and the fifth one your failure and the fear they are that would make other people happy and the final one there will be so many people they would ask you how are you but at the end of the day sometimes they have the time to ask you the question but they don't have the time to listen to your answer these are the six ugly truths you need to accept in your life and in order to be motivated no one can motivate you unless you accept the reality of this world how can you actually do this one the way we can actually do there are seven billion people in this world not everyone is a mandatory element of your life they would ask you so many questions if you cannot answer most of them it doesn't mean you have failed on the grace of your life somehow we make ourselves bound that I have to prove that I can be successful I have to answer your question no that's not your purpose sometimes we take unnecessary pardon you know the moment other people you are avoiding some people in Facebook but to be this generation of technology many people they would judge you not face-to-face but in facebook there is small strategy from my side like the moment other people is attacking you in the social media how can you actually handle the that specific situation the moment you are writing a status and give your comment section other people is judging you then please try to remember this your Facebook wall is your stage the moment you are keeping your status that means you're performing in your stage and the moment other people is writing something bad about you in the comment section that means they are in front of the stage there is not having the opportunity to come to the stage but they have to perform and get the attention to the other people [Applause] [Music] I'm giving status and then writing the comment the problem is doing something but what about they are writing something about the individual second have a problem please always remember the Facebook wall of your hater is the stage of your hater unfortunately they have the stage but they're not platform and they need a hero to perform on your Facebook wall and you are that you about these people at the end of the day the moment our life actually being driven by the expectations and sometimes our expectation is so complicated and so fast he's really problematic how can we simplify our expectations there are two specific words first one that's achievement second one is attachment at the end of the day the biggest mistake we do in our life the moment we are focusing on that achievement before hits the important questions of always sometimes with too busy to reply to other people but we don't have time to get antsy without family members at that indicated these things actually matters and what is the theme of my speech that the theme of my speech is the last three seconds of your life from the FIR the moment you have been born and the moment you are actually being died every single moment you would be judged but in the last three seconds of your life you judge yourself for the first time you will judge about your life and we need to take the preparation we all have dream job green carrier dream spouse unfortunately we don't have the drill depth it is important to have the idea of dream death the moment you are going to die you are a pulpit how can we actually paint the picture of a dream there that's my life first one I always think that the moment I am getting the time and how to die I'm about to give this one I have few seconds there will be few functions that would be done by me first one I would have a quick flashback about my family what could I do on that women I try to keep my head for the lack of my mother because that women struggled the most in order to bring me to this world and the same time the moment I actually landed in this world I did the base trouble with a specific women so come on the moment I am keeping my head or the lack of my mom on that pen the moment I'm just opening up my eyes that person will be the first one whom I can see you know a society and life the person who actually make us feel guilty is our heart because some these people struggle a lot and we ignore sometimes the moment our expectation is not being made by our family a father bit on the criminal we don't hear about his economy capacity or his before so the moment I'm in the bed he would be somewhere in that specific room but we avoid eye contact because in my life I didn't do anything to repay as a son to my father the moment I have actually lying on the bed near my leg I would have my brothers and sisters who actually was my childhood companion sometimes I quarreled sometimes I fought with them sometimes I gave them gift without letting my parents know so they would be in the front of my bed there with one door of my room there are some people I had the opportunity to become the story of their life they will be come inside my room by that door tell me that how beneficial they actually became with my attachment at the same time there are some people who I feel indebted so there are two types of people who I tell thank you the other people they they'll be done thank you the moment you are surrounded by the best people of your life you have only three seconds because you are understanding that you are about to leave this world and you have a quick flashback the moment you are actually opening your eyes you are seeing your mom you're avoiding eye contact with your dad your parents they're your brothers and sisters they're in near your legs and the same time you small part that you think they are this beside your hands and you have the people who are the most important one in your life and you have only last three seconds and before that you have s SCH SC there are so many exams you have so many graves but that didn't actually value it for two or three months sometimes 1 years but in the last moment of your life you'd have your complete life as a exam paper and you would judge yourself and you could give yourself a score but you would give yourself a filling unfortunately we take preparation for everything but we don't take preparation for the most important 3 seconds of Holland let's make the last 3 seconds the best 3 seconds [Applause]