Extraordinary Women Making The World Better Place | Prita Kemal Gani, MBA, MCIPR, APR | TEDxLSPR
URL: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmWujv7NYyQ Video ID: hmWujv7NYyQ ============================================================ Transcriber: Nada Kilany Reviewer: Hani Eldalees Hello, thank you for having me, and my topic for today is women in business, extraordinary woman making the world a better place. Preparing extraordinary woman must be extraordinary preparation, and this upbringing cannot just be an instant. A strong and tough mother will teach their children to be tough and to be strong. Like what my mother taught me how to be strong and to be tough. Many people, thinks or people believe that actually woman should be protected by men, by their father, their brothers, their uncle, boyfriend or even husband And all men should be able to protect women. But what my mother taught me, a woman should be able to take care of their brothers and should be able to be a good partner to their husband, a good partner, meaning in preparing or raising the children together and also dealing and managing family matters together, all equal and support to each other. That is supposed to be a woman. There are many successful and wonderful woman in this world that creating a good life and a good prosperity for many of us because women are the pillar in the house, mother is always the person in the house that we look for and also where we always go to the mother. I’ve been managing or hosting a program Woman on top in Ralphy radio since 2017 till 2019. For the past three years, I interviewed a woman on top, a woman successful, they are entrepreneurs, they’re leaders in their organization. Based on these three years in the view, We do research and analysis. Then we found that then X factors that all this successful woman, wonderful woman have all in common. The number one X factor with all these women have in common. Number 1, is all of them. They have a very big dream. They all have the same characters and mentality that it is nice to be somebody compared to being nobody. So they work hard to make their dreams come true. The second thing in there have in common is to have confidence, to have confidence must be practiced and must be built as a simple as learning how to ride a bicycle. When you are successful, be able to ride a bicycle, you gain confidence, then you can drive a car. Then you can also gain confidence by a simple And a deeper or you can call for many people online and the language that is also will help you to gain confidence. This is what this wonderful woman, a successful woman, have all in common, confidence. The third thing, the X factors that they have in common is the well-being. This woman, this successful woman. They all feel comfortable with themselves. So they like to feel good. They like to look good, then will bring good vibe, good relation to the parents, to husband, to friend, to boyfriend, to children and also to in-law. And also they have a good relationship with their employee. So this woman, they like to do good as simple as open the door for other people. And therefore, X factors that this woman all have in common is attitude. Attitude is as math of important of knowledge and skill. You will always be welcome in any place, in any condition. And in any term, when you have a good attitude, good attitude is also become a likable person when people will like you, whenever they are near by you. So this is all the four X factors have in common with these successful woman. The fifth factor is to have ethics in business. If we don't have good ethics in business, then we will have no business at all. So this woman, successful woman, they always prepare all programs or product, any things that they prepare thinking for the benefit of their customer or the benefit of many people before the profit for their company. So this kind of attitude, this kind of ethics, will make their business always growing. And then every business must also have a purpose. The good things about this wonderful woman, they all need to be careful. When things looks good, it's probably they are. So the six X Factor that all these successful women have in common is their mastery of relationship skill that is also important to learn. Relationship Skill can be built by building a network, have a good relationship and have many friends and also get involved in many activities and be a member of many organization and most of all, always be helpful to many people. The seven X Factor of this woman, they have all leadership skills. Don't make a mistake. The leadership skill is not that always become the superior. The leadership skill is to be able to be obedient to yourself, to influence yourself, to have a self control of your emotion, of your ambition, because you will regret it one day. If you don't able to control yourself. Once you'll be able to control yourself, you'll be able to control other people to have faith in you. So this is the leadership skill that many women have in common. The eight X Factor that this woman have all in common is organizational skill. They're very organized. They're always well prepared. They do their homework, they have the to do list and they become a good team players in their team. They don't think anything for granted. And then number nine X factors they have in common, they're keeping the promise. If you don't keep your promise, people will leave you. So keeping the promise is to be punctual and is always responsible about what you do, about what you make a decision about what you have already promised and always be polite and a good manner and also to be accurate. One, you are not accurate. People will not believe you anymore and always be independent and always be aware and cautious at all time. Number ten, this is the last and I think this is the most important that all these women have in common. The first one is they like to be the best and they want to be the best that they can be. And they want to be useful and always want to be significant. So their present people will feel and also they want to be successful. If you don't want to be successful, you will not successful and always be thankful and grateful for what God has given and what is happening to them and helpful and also grateful to the people who helped them. So this what make this woman successful. I think this is all. And thank you so much.